December 29th, 2001

happytoast power lines

a thought on S&M

Being dominant is like being heterosexual. You can only play with submissives.

Being a switch is like being homosexual: you can only play with other switches.

Being submissive is like being bisexual: you can play with dominants or switches.

I'm evaluating the relative truth of these statements. I find it strange, being bisexual and a dominant. Under the above statements, it's kind of like being heterosexual and bisexual at the same time. I'm trying to evaluate some of my issues with the difference between orientation and behavior.